Ted Haggard’s Closet Gets a Little Fuller

Ted, Ted, Ted, Ted, Ted. What are we going to do with you?

Yes, it’s true. Ted Haggard, public homophobe and pastor of the Denver New Life Mega-Church, is once again the center of a gay sex scandal. I know. I’m as shocked as you. Who would’ve thought that just two short years after having meth fueled sex with a male hooker (which I understand isn’t nearly as pleasurable or fulfilling as the straight laced hetero man on top get it over with quick with the lights out kind), yet ANOTHER story about Ted Haggard having gay sex with a member of his own church would find its way to the surface? Other than me and, probably, you.

The article states:

Boyd said an “overwhelming pool of evidence” pointed to an “inappropriate, consensual sexual relationship” that “went on for a long period of time … it wasn’t a one-time act.” Boyd said the man was in his early 20s at the time. He said he was certain the man was of legal age when it began.”

Ohhh, good. Because of all the things wrong with the head of a mega church that influences public policy by snuggling up to the President of the United States and getting him to pass harmful legislation against gays and women being found to have gay sex with a young member of his church, the one I’m MOST worried about is whether the young man was underage or not. Mr. Boyd, are we on the same planet? I think something a bit more worrisome was the fact that Mr. Haggard paid the kid off.

In a letter e-mailed Friday to New Life Church members, Boyd said of the settlement and agreement not to talk: “This decision was made not as an attempt to conceal wrongdoings, but to protect him from those who would seek to exploit him.”

Okay. I think we’re stretching the suspension of disbelief a little far, even for Christians. If part of the agreement was explicitly that neither party discuss the affair? It was hush money.

In an AP interview this month before an appearance in front of TV critics in California, Haggard described his sexuality as complex and something that can’t be put into “stereotypical boxes.”

*sigh*…. Ted? Ted, you’re gay, and you’re closeted. That’s about as boxed in as you can get. Look. I’m going to try to help you. I know you’re scared and  I know you’re worried, but at this point…how much worse can it really get? You lost your church, you lost your reputation, you’re a national joke, and the woman you’re married to doesn’t trust you now and (thanks to this new thing) probably never will again. You’ve shamed your children. Was it worth it? Ted…stop making their and your life miserable. There IS a way. Two simple words, and then … believe it or not… life will get easier. Ready? Repeat after me. “I’m gay.” Now own it. It will be okay. I promise. Your wife will be able to move on with her life. You may even be able to mend fences with her. Your kids will need lots of attention and understanding, but you could really be a model dad, one who shows just what grace and acceptance really mean, not all that fire and brimstone crap you’ve been spewing for years. And YOU, Ted, will be happy. At least, happier than you are now. Believe it.

And later, we’ll work on that whole god fixation thing.

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4 responses to “Ted Haggard’s Closet Gets a Little Fuller

  1. shamelesslyatheist

    It took two years. THAT’S what amazes me. Of course, it’s been two years – that we know of. He’s in a hell of his own making and it’s just so easy for him to release himself from torment.

    • leftcoastlibrul

      Hey, shamelesslyatheist. Thanks for the reply.

      Indeed, it WOULD be easy to release himself…that’s why I feel so bad for him. All he has to do is accept who and what he is, and life would get better almost instantly. It’s sad.

  2. shamelesslyatheist

    I feel a great deal of sympathy for people who want fervently to believe in a god but are terrified of the repercussions within their religion of choice as to their own “lifestyle choice” (yeah, right). However, my sympathy for Haggard is GREATLY diminished by his maintenance of a world view filled by vociferous hatred (of his own kind!) and pushing a cult of death.

    Is it totally wrong to feel a little smug about the whole thing? I do feel a little guilty about it. But not much.

  3. leftcoastlibrul

    😛 Indeed. Well said. After watching Mr. Haggard on Oprah today (and don’t think THAT didn’t take some serious repression of my gag reflex), I lost a lot of the pity I had… he more or less attempted to totally excuse himself from any of his actions.

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